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Isn’t it ironic that the only pictures I had in my possession as a CHILD happens to be school pictures taken at ages 5 when I was first sexually abused and ages 11 when I was first raped by my grandmother’s husband. I look at these pictures and anger sometimes surfaces, I see a CHILD,… Read more

I NEVER thought in a million years that victims that were sexually abused as children that have lived with guilt and shame FINALLY having the courage to speak about their ordeal could ever result in something this nasty! I’ve heard and read of families being at odds with each other but to the levels that… Read more

Thank You’s, Upcoming Video & Masked 😘 Thank you for your donations. 😘😘 Upcoming release of Grandma Awaken from your Slumber Video… 😘😘😘 Journey2Free launches Masked. A series for survivors of child sexual abuse to share their stories while wearing a disguise all in hopes of starting the healing process through speaking. More to come. Stay… Read more

         OH I PRAYED FOR YOU!  At a point where I was lost and loosing hope, I prayed for you, I needed an anchor, something secure to hold on to, unbeknownst to many, preparing mentally to bid the world adieu but God knowing my thoughts, foreseeing intent granted my hearts desire, He… Read more

I wonder who thought it was a good idea to force a CHILD into covering the fact they’re being sexually abused?!!  How could anyone think a CHILD harboring such a secret, carrying that pain and worst the shame of an adult breeching trust barriers would result in a CHILD being unscathed mentally and emotionally?!  I… Read more

Parents! It’s easier to not place your child/ren in compromising and  uncomfortable situations than it is to have to ask if something happened or someone touched them inappropriately!  Be advised: It matters not how (us) parents believe we have a bond, great speaking relationship or that our children shares or tells us everything. The fragile,… Read more

Do ‘NOT‘ confuse Empathy with Experience, Understanding or Knowing…  Saying, “I can only image what you’re going through” is far different from saying “I KNOW what you’re going through”. There’s a major difference between the two… If it wasn’t your experience then NO, you don’t know what the person is experiencing and even so the… Read more

I could not have said this any better or agree more therefore I MUST repost! A PERFECT follow up to an earlier post I made. If only we could make the majority understand the damning effects of silencing a child that have been sexually abused. Parents! Families! Support the child/children begin the process of healing… Read more

Silencing a child that have been sexually abused does significant harm that is sometimes irreversible…  1. It reeks havoc on the child’s self-esteem  2. It forces the child to be introverted  3. It causes the child to second guess there own thoughts, voice, instincts, feelings, emotions and judgement.  4. It teaches the child that their… Read more

When your circle begins to shrink it’s not necessarily a bad thing; A shrinking or shrunken circle can signify growth… The weeding process for me began a few years ago and it amazes me to see some of who and what I had to release, the funny thing is, while my circle decreases clarity and… Read more

As the month of July 2017 draws closer to the end I sit for a moment and put into perspective how far I have traveled or have come. It was only a year ago I was in this very spot asking God what is to HE wanted from me, A year ago I had completely… Read more

Almost there… Personally counting down the days for the court saga to be through so much has happened since then. So much to share but travel, crappy wifi and multiple projects along with being a mother have me a bit swamped but I’m still here…     Read more

So many of us were born into dysfunction, so many of us still live, breath and accept dysfunction as the norm unfortunately not being able to recognize or even call it out its name.  So many of us inflicted, deeply scared mentally, emotionally some physically, by hurts that were not even ours to begin with,… Read more